Building a Cloud of ? around my Spouse

Every thought, every word, every action is creating a cloud around my spouse 

This cloud will become the atmosphere that my loved one will live inside of.

• This morning I wake up with a complaint towards my wife 

• Then I think a critical thought 

• Then I speak a uncaring word

• Next, I compliment my  spouse

• Then I speak a negative word about our finances

• I speak a word about something that needs done, but I speak it with frustration in my voice

• Then I put myself up and with that word, my spouse feels smaller than I. 

• Then I murmur about a situaiton in my life, this is not against my spouse, but it still adds to the cloud around my spouse

• I complain about the weather, the children, the teacher at school, 

• I speak about 30 negative words about myself during the day 

• I speak something negative about the government or my job

• Now, it is time to go to bed and I do not say anything at all to my beloved about desiring to be with him/her 

• So this is basically my day! 

What kind of cloud or atmosphere did I create for my beloved to live in? (heaviness, fear, frustration, worry, self-hatred, unbelief, self-rejection, negative frequencies, unloving spirits and unbelief?) 

Another Day! 

• I wake up and I say, "thank you Father". Thank You for (Call their name) 

• I fill my mind with the Word of God and I speak it out loud. I decree the Words of God over my day

• I receive the Victory that Jesus is giving me for the entire day

• Throughout the day, I am giving thanks for what is happening, good and bad- because the Word says that I should give thanks for all things and in all things (Eph. 5, 1Thess 5) 

• A problem comes up at The School with one of the children- I give thanks and then I ask God for wisdom (James 1) 

• I speak a complaint, but then I immediately say, please forgive me Father and If i spoke it out loud-then I ask the people that were in my presence to also please forgive me (1 John 1:9) 

• Things come up throughout the day and I do not have any answers and  so I ask God for wisdom and then I thank Him for giving the wisdom (James 1) 

• I compliment my spouse about something in her/him or something that she/he did. 

• If possible, I try to make sure that our family can eat a dinner meal together and at the meal, I have a grateful heart and I just sit at he table and love my family. (looks, words, and especially thoughts) 

• I declare the goodness of God several times throughout the day

• Its time for bed and I lovingly let my spouse know that I am looking forward to being with them in bed. 

What kind of cloud or atmosphere did I create

for my beloved to live in?

(Faith, love, hope, joy, expectancy, kindness, honor, the Presence, self-love and appreciation)